When is the last time a research paper made you cry? I received one, along with an article based on it, that moved me on many levels. I’d like to pass along this sought-after information to as many parents (of children and babies with feeding aversions and NG tubes or g-tubes) as possible.
Supremely helpful insights and guidance are offered in the article, “Prevention and treatment of tube dependency in infancy and early childhood.” Details and analysis can be found in the research paper itself: “Standardized tube weaning in children with long-term feeding-tube dependency: Retrospective analysis of 221 patients.”
It is with great excitement that I share with this research on tube weaning. When Stella’s NG tube was placed, I immediately started researching the topic online and only found horror stories. I went into full-on panic mode immediately, because there was no helpful information. No hope. Only desperation and despair.
The above gems of knowledge come directly from Dr. Marguerite Dunitz-Scheer at the renowned tube weaning clinic in Graz, Austria. I’ve remained in contact with her since January, when she became part of Stella’s successful tube weaning team, providing email coaching from afar.
I found these resources to be illuminating, bringing light to what was previously a dark informational void. They completely validated my feelings and my husband’s feelings–our whole struggle, our crazy experiences, our obsession–surrounding Stella’s feeding aversion and tube placement. It’s fair to say that in this case, reading was healing.
Why are these papers such a big deal? Well, as they point out, “There is extremely little literature on the explicit topic of tube weaning.” Because so little research exists, most parents and doctors are really just “winging it” when it comes to tube feeding and weaning. Yes, some children require tubes for survival and the paper fully acknowledges this. But so many children who are capable of eating on their own, whose core issues have been addressed but who remain *unwilling* to eat, are tube-fed for years, which needlessly and often dramatically lowers quality of life. There’s a better way, and we need to spread the word. More research is needed, but this is a fantastic kick-start. Hats off to the dedicated team in Graz!
I had an email conversation with Marguerite in regards to the problem of tube dependency in infants, which seems particularly pronounced in the United States. Here, children and their parents are sent home from the hospital with feeding tubes in place, but without anything resembling a clear time-frame or plan for tube-feeding, and certainly no plan or support for weaning. It is shameful. Our children and families deserve better than that.
I find these two excerpts from the tube weaning article and research to be particularly powerful:
“Tube dependency is a distressing and unintended result of tube feeding in infancy. The condition of tube dependency can be defined as active refusal to eat and drink, lack of will to learn or the inability and lack of motivation to show any kind of precursors of eating development and eating and drinking skills after a period of gastric feeding. It is characterized by overt disinterest, food avoidance and active refusal, gagging, vomiting, oversensitivity, fussiness and other oppositional and aversive behavior. It may influence the quality of life of the affected infants and their families to such a degree that all other troubles fade into insignificance besides the nightmare of a child who will not eat or drink. Nevertheless, tube dependency is not recognized as a problem by many pediatricians.”
“Parents of tube-fed children feel unhappy about their plight. If the duration of tube feeding exceeds the predicted period of time, they will wish to start tube weaning but lack the means to do so. A vicious circle of insecurity and desperation may result. Pressure and adult expectation build up, causing the child to resist any steps towards autonomy. Parents report feelings of anger, guilt and sadness at the sight of other children eating normally. In earlier studies (Lit 42,43) we reported that 86% of parents of tube-fed children suffered from overt depressive symptoms that disappeared after their children had begun to eat normally.”
The following excerpts should give you a quick, high-level view of the study (its purpose and outcome) as covered in the papers:
“Results: 203/221 patients (92%) were completely and sufficiently fed orally after treatment. Tube feeding was discontinued completely within a mean of 8 days, the mean time of treatment was 21.6 days.”
“The rationale for this retrospective study is to specify a successful tube weaning program in infancy. Many children remain tube dependent after successful healing of their underlying disease. Tube dependency often is accepted as ‘unintended side-effect’ of the treatment.”
“The main hypothesis of the study is: specialized treatment is highly effective and allows weaning severely impaired children even when numerous previous attempts had failed. The primary objective was complete weaning from long-term tube feeding based on sufficient, self-regulated oral intake.”
“The most important point of the model is the concept of full oral autonomy of the infant from birth and the implementation of this concept into the daily handling of parents and caregivers dealing with eating disorders, feeding disorders and tube-fed infants. Hunger is the main motivation for the attainment of self-regulated eating behavior.”
“[Tube] Placement must be preceded by clear criteria and a decision as to the indicated nutritional goal and time of use. The placement of a temporary tube must generate a plan covering maintenance issues including time, method and team for weaning. Aspects of tube feeding that go beyond purely medical and nutritional issues need to be considered in order to minimize the frequency and severity of unintended tube dependency in early childhood.”
Again, here are the links to the tube weaning research papers, and the corresponding publications:
Prevention and treatment of tube dependency in infancy and early childhood, published in ICAN: Infant, Child, & Adolescent Nutrition, Vol. 1, No. 2, 73-82 (2009).
Standardized tube weaning in children with long-term feeding-tube dependency: Retrospective analysis of 221 patients, for publication in Infant Mental Health Journal.
I would be thrilled if this helps even one other family. It’s an issue I feel passionate about, having been through it and learned so much in the process. Please feel free to contact me with any questions and I’ll help and support you as best I can. Thank you!





11 Comments
June 12, 2009 at 12:44 pm
I was so happy to find this post. My son (11 weeks) has had an NG tube for 2 months now and I’m desperate to wean him off of it. I am confident he can learn to eat all that he needs to eat on his own as he currently eats roughly 2 ounces out of the 4 we give him every 3 hours. But I have found very little support out there for parents of kids with NG tubes or how to wean them from those tubes. Thank you for blogging about this. It’s so encouraging to see the photos of your little girl eating so well.
July 16, 2009 at 1:50 pm
Hi,
My daughter is 7m and currently has a NG Tube. She does not like to eat! She has a heart defect that is being fixed friday.
Do you have any tips on how to get my little on to eat atleast 1 oz. she only takes about 1/2 oz out of 4
Thank you
June 18, 2009 at 11:21 am
THANK YOU for this wonderful information, and for sharing your story here. I have a beautiful, wonderful, cheerful, perfect 9.5 month-old boy…who is G-tube dependent. He is capable of eating but refuses. His main difficulty is with drinking liquids (he chokes on anything beyond a few drops at a time), but I believe this can be overcome. I just don’t know exactly how to do it. What struck me in this post is the idea that my son was given both the G-tube and Nissen fundoplacation with NO PLAN whatsoever to get rid of it. We go to our hospital’s feeding clinic every few months but they have no interest in getting rid of the tube; they merely tell us how many calories to give him thru the tube. I am desperately researching ways to wean him. Thank you so much for sharing such great info.
July 16, 2009 at 1:48 pm
Hi,
My daughter has a NG Tube. She does the exact same thing with liquids. Does your son have his G tube still? If not how did he overcome it?
My daughter has a heart defect due to why she does not eat.
June 25, 2009 at 6:05 am
Thank you – I also cried reading the study. We avoided the tube, but my 2 year old son is dependent on Pediasure due to severe GERD-related feeding aversions and currently only eats minimal solids. Our feeding therapist said that switching him off of Pediasure could be handled like weaning from a tube. I am really excited about the article and will definitely show it to her. Please contact me if you know of any place in the US that uses the Graz method. Thanks!
June 30, 2009 at 2:29 pm
THANK YOU so much for this blog, I can not explain how much it has helped us. I could not believe my eyes when my internet, after many months of proding it, has produced what I asked it to – all thanks to you! Our son Alex is now 16 months, has exactly the same health issues as your Stella, but a couple of ‘problems’ on top of that – severe laryngomalacia (floppy larynx), severe reflux (being one of the unfortunate and most damaging symptoms of laryngomalacia) and a heart murmur. He is 16 months now and has been dependent on NG tube most of his life. His medical conditions have much improved over time and we have managed to partially wean him off his tube (thanks to the internet) – he takes solids (they are not very solidy though – mostly total mash), but is particularly bad with drinking liquids and there is just no help out there for us with this in the UK. Because Alex is actually eating something, he is not ‘poorly enough’ to be referred to a specialist feeding clinic in London. I am pulling my hair out. His speech therapist lacks passion for the subject and his dietitian (No.2) just counts calories…His consultant’s advice is to wait with weaning until he drinks more but does not help us with getting him to drink more. His Gastroentologist is the best from his medical team but is so sought after we can not get hold of him easily. His advice is to stick to NG tube, not go for Gastric tube and keep working on his oral skills with the help of …the local medical support team (so we are doomed!)…I have emailed Graz today to see if they can help…We are desperate for the tube to come out, but too scared to go through yet another ‘trial’ ending with dehydration because of inadequate local support. All the best to your Stella and your family! I have a couple of questions though if I may, with the Graz email coaching, did you get an email every day? How much did you pay for the coaching and were they able to do it straight away?
October 30, 2009 at 2:42 am
Hi Silvia,
How I feel for you! I have a 2yr 3mth daughter who has been through very similar things. From birth she ‘failed to thrive’. Wouldn’t breast feed, would hardly take anything from a bottle etc.
Lara was diagnosed with a heart murmur @ 7 weeks which was then fixed surgically. Complication of this was that they paralysed her left vocal cord.( left laryngeal nerve runs v close to surgery site) She was also diagnosed with Laryngomalacia and GERD. So post surgery she wouldn’t eat anything! So we took home a 12 week old projectile vomitting baby with an ng tube and no guidance as to the future!Obviously a lot has happened since then. But in brief we did end up with a gastrostomy @ 5mths as the NG tube just became completely unworkable as she pulled it out almost daily( no matter how I taped it down!)
She still has the gastrostomy but I’m battling to have it removed over the next few months as she can now eat and drink ( after a lot of work- mostly mine). the GERD has also resolved itself. The issue we have is how much she’ll eat and drink to maintain weight gain!
If any of the things I’ve discovered can be of help I’d be delighted to share them with you.
tamara.sanghvi@btinternet.com
July 3, 2009 at 5:56 pm
Excellent work! Here is another parent support network founded by a mother from Australia. It would be great if others can also see your work. The support network is building real momentum now with members increasing rapidly.
http://tubefedkids.ning.com/
Hopefully, you can link up the two websites to enhance information sharing.
July 6, 2009 at 9:01 am
Amber I always find the best inspiration when reading your post. I sometimes just open it up to see what you have to say next and how Stella is doing. I hope you don’t mind but I have passed your link on to moms who I think would get as much inspiration as I have from you. I agree with David it would be great to link the two sites. You have done such an amazing job and are so helpful.
Hugs.. Amy
July 16, 2009 at 1:46 pm
My 7m daughter has a ng tube. She has PDA a heart problem being fixed friday. How did you cope with having to tube feed her? Its so sad for me to watch her not want to eat. I feel like its my fault. When she was younger she actually ate more now everyday it gets worse. I am at a loss. If anyone can guide me and tell me more about there stories that would be great.
Thanks all
July 19, 2009 at 7:44 am
Wow, I suddenly don’t feel alone, but sadly have realised how universal this support issue is. We live in London, UK.
My daughter Paige is now 10mths old and has had an NG tube to supplement breastfeeding since she was 10 days old as she does not demand enough from me to ensure that she does not dehydrate and to ensure weight gain. Sadly she wont take a bottle.
She also had a heart condition AVSD which was fixed in January, but her demand for more did not happen as we were told it would. The feeding teams here as you have already pointed out don’t seem too bothered that she has a tube and when asked to help wean her off it suddenly go silent. They are quite happy to point out the things that your doing wrong and point out that the tube should have only been in for six weeks, but no help you with a weaning programme.
I can not tell you how many days I’ve been depressed and in tears over the whole thing. We were home (NZ) recently to introduce Paige to the family and the number of times we had to explain why we had it and the number of times a certain person in the family would say ‘I’ll do it and we’ll have this tube out before you know it’, was so upsetting.
I’ve been looking for a new vocation and as I can’t stand to see others suffering as I’ve suffered so I think I have just found it.
Amber, thank you so much for not giving up and for sharing this info. I’ll give it a go and let you know how we get on.
Big hug…. Sarah